User talk:Charmed-Jay/@comment-1894108-20101107114726

I'm not sure I can say the following politely, so I'm going bluntly - bear me out until the end.

Jay, perhaps we're both (you and I) doing something right oftener than the other is willing to admit, or we wouldn't be both in the top five in terms of edits, points and badges.

I'm not clear on how our antagonism started, but I'm fairly sure it keeps going on out of either high levels of adrenaline and testosterone or sheer muleheadeness in both of us - the way it seems to me, we can be both stubborn in the defense of our opinions, right or wrong as they may be.

Can we find a way to deal with our disagreements more amicably? It would be easier on both you and me.

I've found that, most cases, dropping a note on another editor's talk page explaining why an edit has been reverted solves the question.