Talk:Demetri/@comment-7600752-20130407224748

Lots of people here think vampires fall in love and have crushes all the time. This is untrue. Since vampires are frozen in time it's extremely difficult for them to change. Think about Edward, it took him around 80 years for love to change him. Apparnetly, Edward had never dated, nor had a girlfriend, and was a vigin until he met, fell-in-love, and married Bella. All these emotions were new to him because he'd never felt them before. So, a change in personality, or thinking, is rare for a vampire. But when they do change it's something extremelly strong and enduring. The books say that ALL the couples still retain the fresh love of newfound love when they look at their partner. This is why Marius is so danged depressed since his wife died. This is also why Aro and Ciaus hide their wives in a tower under heavy guard, they don't want to loose their wives. So I don't believe that vampires just crush on people constantly.