Talk:Quil Ateara V and Claire Young/@comment-24.59.68.93-20140521030029/@comment-16811522-20140629212045

@Sethnesmee - Yes, she does have a choice, and that choice affects the imprinter (either positive or negative). Emily had a choice and chose not to be Sam's, but found herself not able to. That's not being forced, otherwise the things that draw you to do something is force, like being sleepy that you're not able to keep awake for much longer. There's a difference between having no choice and being forced. And imprinting is not for a man to "put his [genital organ] in her." Why do you think Sam and Emily were engaged instead of married right after his imprinting? It was awhile between the time he imprinted on Emily to when they got engaged, that's true (I have the Official Guide in PDB file), but even after she commited herself to him, they didn't instantly marry.

By the way, in Asian countries, women marry older men. My Dad is 56 and he remarried in March to a 29-year-old woman we had known for several years (we had always called her by her name, but I don't think she'll care if we still use her name). Grandmothers and mothers (who married older men themselves) over in those countries teach their children (and it is often true that young men only want sex, especially in those Asian countries) that young men are immature and marrying an older man is wise and involves less problems. Young women don't even mind dating an older man.