User blog:Monkey-Girl/When Change Comes....

I don't like change. Or choices. The second mostly because it usually leads to the first thing.

I don't like change, because what if the place where you're right now, your world, what if everything is just perfect as it is? If your whole life is perfect in the way it is and things change, thats NOT nice.

But you know, sometimes, one choice can have an impact on a lot of people. So sometimes I think we all should make a little sacrifice every once in a while: Because what if the change itself just makes your world a little different, but the same thing can be a lifechanging experience to another person. So what if your world isn't perfect? Thats impossible anyway. You think it's perfect, but nothing and nobody is! What if your world mostly stays the same, but someone elses won't be the same ever again?

Let me give you an example:

My classmate committed suicide on December 4th 2008. He apparently didn't thought a lot would change, but me and the rest of the class (even though they don't show it) never became the same again.

That boy was bullied by almost the whole class! Just because he didn't had a lot of money, and didn't always looked in their standards cool. Every bully cried their eyes out that 4th December, but a week later they started teasing again like nothing ever happenend.  LIKE NOTHING EVER HAPPENED! Everybody knows everybody thinks of it. And the bullies cry when they think nobody sees them. But they all know they might have played a big role in the suicide of their classmate.

Now bullies might be bullies, but later, when we are in college, we will find them working in a low job without education. But then the fact they're not in college or something is not because they don't have money but because they've chosen to bully rather then study. So. Always be prepared on the fact you might make a lifechanging decision every freakin' day!

Change. Sometimes it's good for you, sometimes it isn't. And when it isn't just try to make yourself feel better by thinking that there will probably someone happy about the change out there. (not because it didn't work out for you, but because it did work out for them!)

Think about it!

Jess, I miss you!

I'll see you around the site!

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