Talk:Bella Swan/@comment-5505664-20120722142745/@comment-119.30.39.65-20120726180738

do you think that wanting to have friends & to have others always gawking at you are the same ? an introvert person usually doesn't like to have 'over' attention but will it be a fault to want to have 'real' friends?

we most of the time don't hide our bad mood to our near ones & bella was very upset about the nightmare of getting old (every 'female' will be) and behaved coldly.... as an introvert girl she didn't also like "celebration" but cared for the feelings of her elders by not reacting so much...but as she was very poor at acting she slipped a little and reveal her annoyance ... does that mean that she's selfish?

she didn't ran away with edward when james chased her just because of her father's safety, or sneak out to marry ..... charlie himself admitted that she was less tempered than the most teenagers and more mature as she took care of her mother mentally when they were separated..

love is not something that can be measured by time, once anyone finds his/her other half, then no matter how much time they spend it will surely be an intolerable pain if that loved person leaves...but she atleast tried to pull herself together and started to live for others... and she also knew her pain couldn't be erased by counceling, so she denied to get that. and who won't be upset by other people's ignorarance?

i know some of her attitudes shows her 'selfishness' like the one you've stated about 'forcing' her father to rearrange schedules, dumping (!!) jacob (as many people say), feeling a slight relief when she came to know that angela & ben weren't coming to watch movie with bella, mike & jacob, to convince edward not to join the fight.....but these are nothing infront of her caring & sacrificing nature...the intense urge of her helping, caring,sacrifising make these selfishness seemed little..

we all have some selfishness inside us but are we all selfish???????????????