Talk:Bella Swan/@comment-2020973-20190119154114/@comment-35163915-20190410122743

Edward was interested in bella bcoz he was not able to read her mind and she in him due to attraction(she admitted in eclipse or new moon that edward was like drug to her) and not due to qualities which keeps a couple in longterm or forever relationship otherwise he didn't find a selfish girl in so many years;a quality which he liked about her(admitted in midnight sun).And also bella wasn't an good daughter as for edward she decided to leave charlie not even thinking what he would undergo from when he will see her corpse.Every child has some duties towards parents also.Edward liked that she left renee for her to be with phil,now she leaves charlie(her father) and also her mother for edward(a boy who came in her life a few months ago) is she really unselfish?Love can never be selfish.Bella could have married edward and transformed(or could have married but transformed) after charlie dies(as death doesn't comes so easily); supporting parents in oldage but she was all worried about aging while edward didn't matter about her aging;he just wanted to stay with her irrespective of her aging.In case if she became that time pregnant, atleast situation can be blamed and not bella's choice of showing herself dead.Parents are like gardeners.A gardener loves and upbrings his plants and trees with love and care as he knows when he will be tired due to oldage that trees and plants only will give him shade and no one else.Charlie became a good son by helping his parents in oldage due to which he couldn't leave forks on renee's demand and she divorced him(as given in charlie's wiki) but bella couldn't become a good daughter(bcoz she has gone on mother- a selfish person who thinks of own happiness).Charlie's only happiness of his life was his daughter which bella didn't cared. And jasper shouldn't be an exception to bella's qualities bcoz he controls emotions(emotions are in mind and not physical).Also i can't understand why bella gets everything-able to become mother also and need not to pretend dead also in order to start a new life with edward(due to jacob) also amazing control over thirst.This is just too much.Anyone doesnot get everything in life.Rose got her ideal husband but couldn't become mother and everyone else also lost their family.The truth is that in fantasies'dreams cannot be applied in real world as truth in real is different and harsh.